
Photo by Yanick Macdonald
By Matt McGeachy
I had the opportunity to sit with renowned Canadian actress Nicola Cavendish the afternoon after her fabulous performance on the opening night of Shirley Valentine at The Canadian Stage Company’s Bluma Appel Theatre. We talked about acting, about her future plans, about Shirley, and, yes, about donkeys. In short, Cavendish’s agile and empathetic mind made for an uplifting interview, and left me feeling just as I had after opening night – ready to go out and live my life to its fullest!
MONDO: First of all, congratulations on a fantastic opening night performance! There were so many very moving parts of the show. What parts of the play do you find most moving?
Nicola Cavendish: I’ve never been an actress that analyzes everything — I work from instinct, and empathy, I think. I’m very empathetic to Shirley. But I think the places [in the play] that you find moving are the pieces I find very accessible in myself. But the other pieces — cooking the eggs so they don’t burn, or when she tends to ramble on a bit… I think it’s the writer in me that tends to want to edit really quickly. But that’s not the piece, that’s just Nicola. I have a different relationship with different aspects of the piece.
I believe, no, I know, that Willy Russell got the ideas for this play from the ladies in the chairs at the beauty parlour that he worked at before he was a playwright. So, he’d only written a few things before Shirley Valentine, and this play became part of a project he was obliged to write when he got to college. He went to college in Chester, once he earned enough money to get there, and he worked nights on the Liverpool docks where the men went up to make sure that the machinery was lubricated and keep these huge pieces of machinery in working order, and he made lots of money and was able to get himself to college in England. The words that you heard last night come out of the mouths, primarily, of the women in the beauty parlour chair. And when women get into a beauty parlour — it’s like getting into a cab, they talk. He put his own words and thoughts into the mix, but it’s really good material.
MONDO: Shirley Valentine captures a certain place and time in English society, but at the same time, it’s so beautifully updated to the present time. It’s not really dated at all.
NC: It’s funny, in Montreal where we just were, a lady came up to me — and it’s rare that I meet the audience, but with this particular play people tend to need to come back and make touch with me, they need to be able to reach into my eyes a little bit further and speak with me about their experience — and on this one occasion this lady said, “I can’t believe that situations like this where people marry people they don’t want to marry still exist!” I said, I think that’s naïve of you to think that way, perhaps you’re more privileged than most, perhaps you’ve got the ideal marriage, but I think this situation will always exist as long as two people get married, or even have partnerships. Sometimes the language can get really rough at home, and sometimes the angers and frustrations that you bring in from a day can completely erode whatever it was that made you fall in love with the person in the first place, if there was indeed love in the first place.
I think the power of this piece is that it’s accessible not only on the kind of life that Shirley is living, even if her marriage was fine, but there is the question that we all ask of ourselves: are you actually living your life? Are you allowing yourself the spontaneous unpredictable things in a day that actually fuel you? I was thinking today that so many of us get stuck in a routine, whether it’s where you go to buy your groceries, or where you walk your dog, or if you jump in the car (if you have a car) and take the dog to a place you’ve never been before and meet new people. Shirley and I part ways because that’s how I have always lived my life. I talk to people who are complete strangers because there is so much to be mined out there. So many of us get boxed in, and we must fight it!
MONDO: Is this political undercurrent I’m hearing something that motivates you in your character?
NC: Yes, I think so. It’s a wonderfully powerful message, and it needs to be said more often than not. Look at the money motivational speakers make! There are obviously many people who are longing to buy self-help books and sit in an auditorium. Here we have a lovely evening, in comfy seats, where you get a nice story and get to play pretend and imagine — a lot. That’s the other kick with this play, it reminds you that you have an imagination. You get to imagine her son, Brian, her daughter, the neighbour, feminist Jane; you get to imagine where she is on the beach. Willy Russell has written a gift of a play that began in 1987, when it first opened in London’s West End, and here it is in 2009, and it has been performed all over the world, made him millions of dollars — he has lowered his royalty fees on the play — and it appeals to a huge mass of people. It’s obviously quite something. I’d like to write, I wish I could be a millionaire like him! Look at me, I’m the pawn who goes out there every night, he’s just written it!
MONDO: If it’s millions that you’re after, you could always go into motivational speaking.
NC: You could, couldn’t you, as an actor? It is about performance, and hopefully a good reason to be motivated.
MONDO: No, don’t do that, it would be our loss!
NC: I wonder. You know there are a lot of young people coming up out there, and that’s another part of myself that I find lately is connecting with the young people particularly who want to be in theatre or any art form. There are always a granny and grandpa who’re frightened about going into a profession with no promises, and there are no promises here. You’ve got to be strong and you’ve got to be good, and that’s the way it is.
MONDO: You’re directing something next year at UBC. Could you talk about that?
NC: Yes! That’s exciting! I’m already looking at music for that extraordinary event, The Laramie Project, which needs to be seen by everyone, everywhere, all the time. In Vancouver we haven’t had a professional production yet, and we have a huge gay and lesbian population, wonderfully rich with writers and artists. But it’s not exclusive, it’s a play for everybody. I’m going to do it with some university students in the fall.
Of course it honours Matthew Sheppard, the young university student in Wyoming who was beaten within an inch of his life and tied to a fence — one of those huge ones that go along the highway — and he was still alive when a man on his morning bike ride was out and thought he saw something hanging on the fence. He’d taken a different road that morning and the closer he got he realized it wasn’t a plastic bag flapping, it was a human being. And the young man was still alive and he phoned for an ambulance. The whole town is represented in this play. A group went to Wyoming and interviewed people from this part of Matthew’s life — the bartender at the bar, the parents of the boys who did it, who are in jail as we speak (and right they should be) and the theatre class at the university that he took — so, it’s a really important play, especially for students. Sometimes theatre students are fighting their own demons themselves, or are in the process of opening themselves up to all that the world gives us that is wonderful, and all that it thrusts at us that is horrific. So you have to be a sieve for human kind, and that’s what they’re going to cut their teeth on with me!
It’s going to be a hellish work, and there isn’t any money involved to speak of — of course we all have to worry about that, about putting a roof over our head – but this is for something else. First, I love my alma mater, love the theatre grounding I had there, and I care about students. This is a vital play to get out to the audience. Maybe it will be able to make one of those transfers [to professional theatre].
MONDO: There was something I noticed about Shirley and I wanted to know if it was intentional. Every time things got really heavy and we saw her loneliness and depression, you’d let us have that for a brief moment, and then crack a joke. I want to know if this was something that was in the script, or if it was your interpretation of it?
NC: I love these kinds of questions. It’s on the page, but an actor can interpret any line any way they want to with the support or endorsement of the director. And if the director says, “I don’t think it should be that way,” but you think it should be, or it wants to be that way, then you have to fight for it.
I believe that comedy is something that we use, consciously or unconsciously as a survival skill. From a kid in a schoolyard being bullied, to deflect the punches, to Shirley. I think Shirley has learned, as witnessed by the scene in which she’s in school and she describes that she’s picked on, she became a rebel after that. And in becoming a rebel, she’s become in some ways a person who can crack a mean joke if she wants. She has learned to crack a mean joke if she wants, and uses jokes to take herself out of that darkness and out of that sadness because what’s she’s doing progressively is looking at a truth, which is something that is very hard to look at. This is why we have so many people who are subject to unhappy lives — children who are subject to unhappy marriages that should be over and the children would be happier, and the parents would be happier with each other if they were apart. This ancient Victorian thing of staying together because the Church says so or because society says so — there’s a lot of fall out in terms of damage.
To answer your question, the role I play in that choice is that I am in agreement with Willy Russell, and when it’s not there, I think it’s a more powerful choice, when she’s talking about someone like Marjory Majors [a character in the play] whom she used to pick on, while all the time she wanted to be like her, and then she’s having tea with her 20 years later, and then she leaned forward and she kissed me [Shirley] on the cheek. And there was real affection in that kiss — this is what she’s thinking in her head – and she thinks, when was the last time she’s had a kiss like that? I could say that a different way, but that does not have the teeth under it, and it’s vital for the audience to feel that something. Canadians are known for that quiet humour, have lots of grace, they aren’t laugh riots like the American humour, and aren’t so subtle as the British humour is. I think we are more joined to the hip to Brit humour than American humour. That said, the kind of self-deprecating humour that Shirley has, has a kind of grace and acknowledgment of manners: we’ve gone too far now, it’s time to pour the tea and change the subject!
MONDO: You were born in England and raised in Canada. Does your heritage offer you a certain perspective on exactly that kind of humour?
NC: I think so. I’m a product of my tremendous father’s ability to see humour in everything and my Irish mother’s ability to see the truth, and speak the truth no matter what. That’s what Shirley does. When she says at the end of the first scene, “He says he loves me, but he doesn’t. It’s just something he says.” It’s a terrible thing, isn’t it? Like it’s supposed to make everything all right. Now she’s saying there are other things that aren’t all right. There’s almost a bitterness coming out of her. To be an actor, you have to have the ability to be instinctual and be able to go the distance, which is a most dangerous thing to do. I don’t remember who told me this, but it’s true: he said, “Nikki, always remember when you’re on stage performing any character, there is always somebody out there who knows what you’re talking about more than you do.” Which means you have to play to the highest stakes, you can’t short sell anybody. You have to do your research, and you go the distance. That’s a fabulous piece of advice.
There’s another piece of advice from a show — oh God, you’re too young you wouldn’t know this, but it used to play on the CBC — The Beachcombers. It had this glorious actor, his name was Robert Clothier, a fabulous man. I was young and I’d read some reviews, because you did when you were young, and he said to me, “Now Nicola, if you’re going to read reviews, you better believe all of it. If you’re going to believe the good, you’d better bloody well believe the bad. So you don’t read reviews.” And I’ve never read a review since. Such good advice, isn’t it?
MONDO: Well, I don’t know. I hope somebody reads my reviews!

Photo by Yanick Macdonald
NC: Well, that’s right. But it’s true. I think that’s what that wonderful play Art was all about. You get three people and they’re friends, and the man in the middle has bought a piece of art and he loves it. And the other two people pitch in their reviews on the piece. But when push comes to shove, art is a subjective experience. It begins with the person interpreting it, and it then with each individual person. So the critics are — well, you’ve got to be really good as a critic, don’t you? You’ve got to choose your words really well and be inside the piece, and we all know what deadlines are like. People come to see a show, and the critics have popped up before the curtain call to get the review on the wire.
I got a lovely email from a critic in this town this morning. He said, “Dear Nicola, I know you don’t like to read reviews, but I don’t think you’ll have anything to fear in this. Here’s the link.”
MONDO: Did you read it?
NC: No! I had a part of it read to be by accident in an interview this morning, but no, I don’t want to – it’s really scary being on stage, isn’t it? It’s terrifying. I can’t even begin to examine – I’m not interested anyway – why one chooses to get up on a stage in front of people, who thankfully sit in the black, and who hopefully respond where you anticipate they will respond with empathy, or with love. Often in this production I hear muffled sobbing. I always hear sobbing at the end. But that’s all I need.
[Nicola caught sight of a dog walking outside the window.]
Oh, look at that dog with the little black sock on! Isn’t he adorable? Do you like dogs?
MONDO: Yes, I do. Do you have dogs?
NC: No, my brother has a dog, out in the Okanagan Valley where I grew up, and he just loves me! He doesn’t get to see me very often, so he associates me with long walks along the beach. You know I like dogs more than humans, actually.
There was a woman I met years ago up in Muskoka, who was at last night’s performance. Her name is Gillian Valentine. I gave her my opening night tickets. When I was visiting my friend up there I came across some animals and they weren’t in good condition. In fact, it was appalling by my standards of keeping another creature on the earth. So I made it a point to go to the house and find out what was going on. I ended up meeting Gillian Valentine, and if it hadn’t been for her these animals wouldn’t be alive. And she brought me a picture last night of this donkey, this beautiful donkey that I dream about named Charlie, and I would give anything to find a home for this donkey! I will get my brother to drive out and get him to wherever he needs to go. Donkeys are fiercely intelligent creatures, and very wise, and they like for 25 or 30 years. I just don’t like that he’s lonely. Now, it’s my mission this visit or this year to fix this situation. I’d like to get a film crew and drive across the country and get back to British Columbia where he could live in my brother’s apricot and peach orchard.
MONDO: That sounds wonderful!
NC: You could come!
MONDO: I would like to know how your interpretation has change in the 20 years since you first played Shirley. How has your way of communing with the character changed?
NC: I think it’s about recognizing that the age that I am, in the beginning I was 37, now I am 56, I think it’s about recognizing as soon as you can that a situation that doesn’t enliven you, enlarge you, enlighten you — if it doesn’t give you a sense of being alive, say thank you very much, I’m off now, good-bye! The sooner you can do this, the better.
I think that’s the central message of the play. You know, before, Shirley was a laugh-riot, everything was funny, and the show was synonymous with a great big evening of laughter. Now the show is about taking a deep introspective look at your self and the life you are living, whether you’re 19, 59, or 70, whatever. It’s never too late to make changes for yourself. It takes great courage, great courage. I think you should be surrounded by laughter and happiness and joy, and that’s in the play now!
MONDO: Well I can’t think of a finer place to end. Nicola Cavendish, thank you very much.

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